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Accurately remembering a lost loved one enables us to keep them in a place of honour in our hearts whilst also making space for the possibility of new love.
Whether widower or widow, dating again can bring you comfort and companionship after loss.
Unlike other free dating sites aimed at widows and widowers, we don’t treat you like just another face in the crowd; we specialise in helping people find meaningful, happy relationships.
With the help of our unique Relationship Questionnaire, we take the time to really get to know you, so that we can introduce you to singles who will share the values that really matter to you.
The e Harmony Relationship Questionnaire does take some time to complete, but it covers all of the core values that we know will be important to you in your relationship.
Emotional energy, kindness, humour and adaptability are just a few of the dimensions that we take into consideration, so you can sure you’ll be introduced to people who feel the same way you do when it really counts.
You can choose whether to initiate or respond to messages, and our secure e H Mail system means you don’t have to exchange any personal details until you’re ready.
As the relationship ended because of a death, we can feel that it would never have otherwise ended.
In that sense, it can hold an ‘eternal’ quality in our hearts and minds, with our dead partner being elevated to the position of a ‘martyr’.
Yet, to really see the rewards of this, it is important to remember two things: you musn't compare (try not to think about how someone new is similar to your previous partner) and you musn't contrast (likewise, try not to focus on how the person you are dating is different to your ex.) The danger with comparing and contrasting is that anyone new will be measured according to an unachievable ideal.
To bear this in mind is important for anyone serious about beginning to move forward.