My boyfriend have been dating 2 months
You feel alone and he is the only one who brings you happiness.You have talked to your boyfriend, told him how it makes you feel unimportant when he doesn't text you first.Your boyfriend asked you if it would be okay if he take this trip with his female bestie. I don’t think logic enters into the equation or that we are dealing with a situation that can be judged under being “right” or “wrong”. At the opposite end, is a more traditional approach that feels that any close relationship between a man and a woman is most probably going to have, implicitly or explicitly, a sexual component which can be detrimental to the “specialness” and dignity of a committed couples relationship.
While you’ve made up your mind about him – you love him, and you think he’s the one – you still aren’t confident that your relationship will endure.
My (33m) wife (31f) just seems so irritatable, snappy and mean sometimes that it makes me fearful of her.
This being the case, the challenges you and your boyfriend face as a couple are: a) maintaining respect of each other’s positions; b) seeing if there are areas of commonality and shared values; c) developing compromise skills- especially in dealing with sensitive issues like this one; d) and, maintaining the integrity of the cultural norms that give your life meaning and some sort of moral or ethical compass.
For example, if one member of a couple holds sexual fidelity as a srong value/cultural norm and, the other sees it as a restrictive, unenlightened and too limiting as to the forms which human sexuality can express itself…